So Misguided

This post should have been titled How to Date a Pussy.

It’s hard to find anything on the internet that makes me gag harder than blogs written by feminists.  2 girls 1 cup is appealing after reading this drivel.

Read it for yourself.  It’s full of lulz.  Here’s some of the quips that caught my attention:

…but my mother never taught me how to test a guy for closeted sexism or male supremacy.

Assuming you know who your father is, that’s because your mother is a married woman who convinced a man to sleep with her and rear you.  We men play by many feminist rules such as no-fault divorces, and as a result we are extremely cautious.  Knowing the consequences of marriage, a woman who even hints that she might be a feminist is a giant red flag.  It means, “I’m a feminist and I agree with feminist ideology such as total denial of gender differences, insufferable demand that men see things my way without ever returning the favor, and legal double standards re: division of property.  If I get bored of this marriage I’ll wage-slave you because I can’t make the same amount of money that you can, but I want the lifestyle you can provide and p.s., we’re equal.”

Here’s a tip, young lady: if you want a quality man that you will still find sexually attractive after you’ve run out of Jane Austen novels to critically discuss, get one who you think might beat you if you pissed him off enough.  Drop this feminism immediately or die alone with your cats.

in the UK where I’d guess that most of the sixth form (junior and senior year equivilants) would vote Labour, or Liberal Democrat. My history teacher has the “Encyclopedia of Feminism” on her desk, and the guys in my classes *MOSTLY* accept that most of the female population of the sixth form is (or is ALMOST) feminist…

Just one more example of where Britain is headed.  Britain will be a Sharia state by 2100.

I have found that men who are generally fair and honorable to be very open to thinking about and understanding things from a feminist point of view. They may not have thought about it much before meeting me, but once I pointed out some very unfair things in society’s treatment of women, they were quick to agree and to look for those things themselves, a lot of times offering valuable insight, or things I haven’t considered before.

You date men who listen to Coldplay, dabble in Buddhism, and wear scarves that match their outfits.  You cook vegetarian meals together and they prefer cats to dogs.  You probably cheat on them.  Am I right?

I think feminism is really, at the core, about freedom and fairness, and any man or woman who has that kind of moral tendency will be open to learning and growing.

Except when it comes to divison of property and reproductive rights, in which women typically get the house, the children and more than half of the money, and in which a pregnant woman is allowed to kill the baby without the man’s consent.

I am married to a pretty good guy, but since I’ve gotten more feminist, he’s been quick to find the “flaws” in all the feminist ideology. I know he’s a critical thinker and that’s part of it, but it’s frustrating that he can’t seem to step beyond his gender and reason on my terms.

They’ll be divorced in 5 years.  If she hasn’t screwed other men, she’ll start, unless by “finding flaws” the OP means “hits me across the face.”

But, I think that its easy to make some important observations based on his hobbies (is he associated with a fraternity – if so, what type is it? does he drink a lot? how does he act around other women? Does he let you speak? Does he respond positively to your opinions? Is he respectful of what you want to do (especially sexually)? I would drop some *hints* about your political leaning, about your interest in women’s rights – see how he responds. etc,etc,etc.

If you need to conduct an observational study of your boyfriend to know these things, you should break up immediately because you know nothing about each other and are wildly incompatible.   

Evan Maxim #1: If you’re a liberal, date a liberal.  If you’re a conservative, date a conservative.  If your fundamental worldviews are not compatible, you will never work.

Does he compliment your body more than your thoughts? What are his political leanings? What are the lyrics to his ten favorite songs (do they denigrate women)? What are his ten favorite books (hint: if it’s that sci-fi author with the rapist space captain protagonist, run away!)? What are his views on religion (interpret as you will)?

Divorced.  A man who compliments his wife’s thoughts more than her body will turn his marriage into a sexless one.  Women who claim that they don’t want to be complimented on their body are totally full of shit.  Don’t believe me?  Try this simple experiment.  Go one month in which you frequently tell your woman she’s hot.  Then go one month in which you never say a word about her appearance but tell your woman that she is a deep thinker with ground-breaking, world-changing ideas.  Tally up the number of times you have sex in each month vs. the number of times she cries each month.

Luckily, I do have some older or more mature male friends who are well educated and have been taught by their mothers and female friends about what it talkes to have real relationships with girls, and who will ALWAYS speak out against sexism.

Beta chumps.  They’ll be friends forever and never hump you because they don’t make you horny.  I bet at least one of them is gay.

Dating, for me, is kind of a minefield at the moment, but I think that has a fair amount to do with how uncomfortable I am with my body. (I know, I know, everyone should be able to love their body, and I’m getting there, I think.)

Your body doesn’t matter.  A man should love you only for your mind, right?  Wait, is this another fellow sister placing value on her physical appearance?  Shame on her.  Get your fingers ready girls, it’s time to give this poor uninformed psuedo-feminist such a pinch!

there is this 4 year dating isolation that makes you feel like you will never meet anyone who shares your views.

No man actually shares your views, he just pretends to so he can get your pants off and you believe him because you’re stupid.

Thankfully being younger many men in our generation are more open to feminism and equality. There is nothing wrong with being completely blunt about, like “feminism is something that is really important to me and I really believe in equality” and see how he responds.

If he walks away, marry him.  If he agrees with you, ask him for fashion advice and set him up with other boys.  Boys are often more open to feminism and equality because purporting otherwise will get them tarred and feathered by the indoctrinating witches staffing the schools.  Once these boys become men, find their balls, escape the domination of these zeitgesting crones, and discover that everything they were ever told about gender relations and female equality is a bold faced lie, they will no longer be open to feminism and equality.  When they watch how the girls in the clubs melt for alpha players and completely snub the losers who still think girls want weak feminist men, they’ll learn fast or die virgins. 

If tells inappropriate jokes, if he’s patronising, etc. I call him out on that.If he stops and maybe takes on board some of the things I say, then he’s welcome to stay, if he doesn’t then he’s not worth my time.

Witnesses to the birth of a cat lady, all of us.  This woman will hit 35 and her dying ova will finally convince her to drop this bullshit and settle for that guy who still lives in his mother’s basement because he’s the only one as desperate as she is.

I dated a guy for a few months who didn’t get my “feminist” thing. He was also from a South American country where the machismo culture is much more ingrained. So be it. The relationship didn’t work out, but there’s nothing wrong with tolerating someone whose views on the sexes don’t line up exactly with yours, as with any other issue. It doesn’t mean they’re a date rapist. You’ll also learn a lot about the “other side” and maybe pass along your own enlightened ideas.

He had a big cock and he made her horny.  They had a lot of sex.  He dumped her.

To my knowledge I am the only male feminist in my year in high school.

Hanging, drawing, quartering for this traitor.

Of course, you could just shout “I LOVE ABORTION” really loudly somewhere and see who comes to talk to you.

Every man who wants to fuck you bare and never call again, resting assured knowing that you’ll abort the result at Planned Parenthood without costing him a nickel.  He’ll even save on condom fees and probably give you herpes.

I can relate, I find myself wondering all the time – is my boyfriend sexist?

Are you attracted to him?  If so, the answer is yes.  If not, dump him and find a sexist.

As a man just let me say that there are many pro-feminist college age men (I am one of them). It’s my belief that relationships can most definitely work between feminists and men; however, it has been my anecdotal experience that feminists who have bad experiences with relationships tend to still subscribe to an older (and rather un-feminist) model of dating in which the woman waits for the man to make the first move, and here’s just a helpful hint, the guy’s who are going around hitting on girls like crazy probably aren’t the equality-friendly men that you’re looking for…

Translation: no matter what these so-called feminists say, as a beta pussy who tries to play the open-mindedness card to score with chicks, I find that girls don’t live up to the hype and still expect the man to pursue them like a raging beast on a hunt and they probably buzz their clits off while fantasizing about safe rape.  The guys who are going around hitting on girls like crazy aren’t the equality-friendly men you’re looking for but you bang them at parties anyway because they have the balls to chase you and that’s exactly what your inner woman desires.

And it’s an unfortunate truth that, all ideology aside, relatively few women in modern society (feminists included) seem to have truly embraced a modern model of dating.

To quote the great modern philosopher king Roissy, biomechanics is god.

I guess for me, it helps that I am incredibly picky when it comes to men. I won’t be even remotely attracted to someone who reeks of chauvinism, and if someone who I previously found attractive drops a sexist, racist or homophobic comment, they are automatically out.

In other words, you want to die alone.

…honestly, the only guys I know my own age who aren’t complete chauvinistic pigs are the gay ones.

QED.

But I did talk to him about my political views before we got together, and was pleased to find him as politically liberal and skeptical of bullshit as I was.

You can’t be skeptical of bullshit and remain a liberal or a feminist, two of the biggest bullshit ideologies on the market today.

Beware of chivalry. In my experience men who open doors and insist on paying for things and seem like “gentlemen” don’t want an equal – they want some kind of pet. The feminist men I know are the ones who want to go 50/50 on a meal out and expect the door-opening to work both ways (sorry).

What do women who demand alimony payments want, other than alimony payments?

Even though we didn’t always agree, and even though it took me FOREVER to explain to him that THE PATRIARCHY IS REAL AND IT’S ALL AROUND US, he was always trying. He really wanted to understand where I was coming from.

He really wanted you to shut your freaking mouth about it so you could blow him.  A man can only listen to a harpy whine about partiarchy for so long.  Does he cum on your face?

I have prided myself on being an independent girl with a number 1 no boyfriend rule because it just complicates my life and males just don’t respect my ideals

Is it worse to be dependent or lonely?

…and especially if you can have discussions with him about feminist issues before you start actually dating him, you’ll be at a real advantage. Must better than going on a date with a misogynist pig who treats you like some sort of “prize” and not realizing it beforehand.

Much better to go home out half the cost of the meal with a dry vagina then full of free food and horny.

As a woman who is happily married to a very strongly pro-feminist guy (I’m typing this as he is cleaning up the kitchen – it’s his turn because I made dinner!), there is some good advice on here so I won’t repeat it.

The single simplest piece of advice I can give you is to watch out for any of these words or phrases.

“Such-and-such woman is crazy/shrill/hysterical/emotional/irrational/psycho/stalker/needy”

Translation: I make my cuckold husband eat my lover’s load out of my vagina and wear panties while he does chores.  Like me, he completely denies reality.  When he says anything negative about me or women in general, regardless of how true it is, I anally penetrate him with a strap-on and make him admit that he wants the real thing.

“X is frigid/lesbian” – 99% of the time this means ‘that bitch refused to shag me’. It means he can’t gracefully accept a woman’s right to reject him, and again, he believes his right to be with her trumps her right to turn him down.

At one point in the history of your genetic lineage, your ancestor was the result of a man exercising his right to be with a woman bceause he’s bigger and stronger.  You exist because a man’s right to have a woman trumps a woman’s right to turn him down.  Men invented rape laws because we are better people than feminists who, if the shoe were on the other foot, would not enact the same laws.  I know this for certain because feminists wrote divorce laws and the no-fault divorce is the closest thing to male-victim rape in this country and the feminists actively sought it and successfully made it legal.