The Mel Gibson Test
To every man who is contemplating a semi-permanent future with a woman, I suggest administering the Mel Gibson test to her.
The test is simple. Have her listen to the Mel Gibson tapes and read a little bit about the woman, Oksana Grigoriev.
If your woman white knights the russian whore and hates on Mel Gibson, you have no future with her.
Why? Simple.
Suppose everything Oksana is saying is true, chiefly that he beat her. A claim, I would add, which Gibson’s ex-wife has refuted in court stating that in the 30 years that she was married to him he never raised a hand at her. How many ex-wives of abusive husbands do you know that would voluntarily testify in defense of them voluntarily?
Oksana’s dentist doesn’t think so either.
Nevertheless, suppose her story is true. Does that give her the right to violate California law and record Gibson against his knowledge and then start a for-profit smear campaign by selling the illegally obtained tapes to the tabloids? The answer should be a resounding no. No matter how despicable wife beating is, two wrongs don’t make a right. Her escalating retribution will do more damage to Gibson in the eyes of the tottering morons who can’t see through this story than he might have done to her veneers. And that might is a big one.
Put yourself in Gibson’s shoes for a minute. Do you want to be that guy? There is a 100% chance that at some point or another you will find a way to sleight your woman. Do you want your woman to be the kind that thinks Oksana’s actions were justifiable? Or even admirable? Do you want your woman to be the type that could contrive this kind of scheme?
I certainly don’t.
The more pressing issue, though, is not your woman’s ability to distinguish fact from fiction in a story with many angles. The issue isn’t even hinged upon what your woman thinks is an appropriate punishment for the crime of woman-beating. The issue is whether or not your woman’s knee-jerk reaction is to side with poor Oksana. A woman who’s first thought is to consider Mel’s side of the story, and the fact that Oksana is full of crap, is the woman you want to be with. She is far more likely to take that stance in arguments between the two of you – to consider your angle first – then to immediately assert an intolerable self-righteous posture. If Oksana gets a pass because she too has a vagina, you’re in for a long, soul-sucking, horrible relationship. She’s dead to you. Get out while you can.
After listening to that tape, I feel a great deal of sympathy for Mr Gibson. From his voice, it’s clear that this woman has done something to push him over the edge.
Mel left his wife for this woman, he made a bad choice and he is paying for it. He is unhinged. She is a bad woman but he chose her. Fool
Yes, why isn’t she being prosecuted for this clear violation of CA. law?